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Jo chatted here LIVE on July 15th to mark the US release of her latest book. Transcript*** :Welcome to Jo Frost Chat , Jo Frost! *** :Welcome to Jo Frost Chat , myusername! myusername says to: Hey Jo!! *** :Welcome to Jo Frost Chat , JC! *** :Welcome to Jo Frost Chat , stressed out! *** :Welcome to Jo Frost Chat , JenJen_26! *** :Welcome to Jo Frost Chat , Southern Girl! *** :Welcome to Jo Frost Chat , twinsmommy! *** :Welcome to Jo Frost Chat , Mady's Mom! *** :Welcome to Jo Frost Chat , poppy0680! myusername says to: Hey Jen!!! JenJen_26 says to: Hello all, hope everyone is doing great! JenJen_26 says to: Hey Southern Girl says to: hi everyone! ***:Welcome to Jo Frost Chat , aploum! twinsmommy says to: hello.. poppy0680 says to: hi aploum says to: Hello... ***:Welcome to Jo Frost Chat , nfldpenguin! Mady's Mom says to: Hello I am new here and I am desperate for help myusername says to: I am so excited I really turned down 3 people who wanted to hangout tonight for this webchat lol. twinsmommy says to: How does this work? is there any special order we go in? JenJen_26 says to: not really Jo Frost says to: ***:Welcome to Jo Frost Chat , babysoup! poppy0680 says to: good Southern Girl says to: hi jo...great, you? twinsmommy says to): Hi Jo!!! JenJen_26 says to): Good, how about you? aploum says to): I need help as well... do we just type our problem? myusername says to): Hey Christy! babysoup says to): Hi myusername says to): I am good Jo... how was your birthday?? Jo Frost says to: myusername says to) 8 om nfldpenguin says to) Jo, I have a two and a half year old son. I have a lot of problems with him just not listening, any advice? twinsmommy says to) It's 8 here. myusername says to) pm* JenJen_26 says to) 7:15p.m Southern Girl says to) 7:00 pm here in MIssissippi Mady's Mom says to) it is 7pm here JenJen_26 says to) here in Texas JC says to) 8 in vermont. GIRLY says to) It's 5:00 pm aploum says to) Hello Supernanny Jo, I really need some advice... My daughter is 21 months and has always been a good sleeper. She has been sleeping in her own bed and through the night since she was about 3 months old. In the beginning of June we went on vacation with her, we had a crib for her to sleep in but the only place we could put it was in the room with my husband and I. She had no problem going to sleep in it, however ever since we have been home we have been having problems with her. Jo Frost says to: ***:Welcome to Jo Frost Chat , mommy of 3! Mady's Mom says to I really need some advice from you Jo! myusername says to Shannnnn! ***:Welcome to Jo Frost Chat , nannyof5! twinsmommy says to: April 16th we converted the twins (20 mo. - girls) beds into toddler beds b/c they were climbing out. June 26th I joined the forum for advice & received awesome support! With help from Christy, Wendy & a few other ladies I was able to get the stay in bed technique to work, after 5 or 6 days - BUT - my sweet little girls have turned on us. They won’t stay in bed, they stay in their room but then they get into the toy box & the drawer babysoup says to: Hi Shan twinsmommy says to: Most recently, Elizabeth, has been waking her sister, Emmalyn, if she falls asleep b/4 she’s ready to sleep. The worst part is she’s waking her by BITING and PUSHING HER OUT OF BED. Last night I had to take Emmalyn from her room to let Elizabeth fall asleep b/4 I could put Emmalyn into bed. ***:Welcome to Jo Frost Chat , soliloquise! mommy of 3 says to: hey everyone twinsmommy says to: The MOST worst part is that Emmalyn is now scared to be left alone in her room with Elizabeth. When I say she bites her to wake her up, that’s not all that accurate, she’s biting her just to bite her too. Poor little Emmalyn is learning how to play the victim & is beginning to whine even when she’s not being bitten. aploum says to: For the past month (since we have been home from vacation) she now refuses to go to sleep in her own bed without screaming, crying and eventually throwing up. I have tried many methods, I have let her cry, but she will cry and scream for hours standing up, she will not sit or lay down, she just stands in her crib with her blanket in her hand. I have tried going in and laying her back down without saying anything and walking out again, but that just makes her more upset. poppy0680 says to: Hi shan!!! Southern Girl says to: hey Shan! nfldpenguin says to: JO, Mostly with following directions, example to stop doing something that he is not allowed to do or something dangerous twinsmommy says to: My husband is beginning to think we need to try something drastic like spanking or something the like. We’ve done time in the corner but that doesn’t seem to work. We did buy the “Teeth are Not for Biting” book but that seemed to make it worse!!!! GIRLY says to: hey soliloquise says to: hello everyone, trouble has arrived from wales :) twinsmommy says to: Jo we’re so desperate for help!! Elizabeth is a great, smart little girl but I just can’t seem to get her to stop biting her sister, Emmalyn. Emmalyn has bite marks on her arms, legs, even her feet. It’s embarrassing when we go out in public, I fear someone is going to think I’m hurting her b/c of the bruises - it’s awful. PLEASE HELP US!!!! mommy of 3 says to: this is alot better chatroom Southern Girl says to: hi, sam :) myusername says to: yes it is..... JenJen_26 says to: yes it is aploum says to: She wants me near her so she can hold on to me. If I go in her room and sit by her crib so she can hold my hand she is fine and she will go to sleep, or if I bring her in bed with me she goes right to sleep. For the past week I have been consistent at having her fall asleep in her own bed instead of mine, but it is a constant struggle. I usually end up having to sit by her crib so she can touch my hand and then she falls asleep. Please give me some advice on how to handle this situation soliloquise says to: hello to babysoup southern and shan and of course jo !! < swoon > lol babysoup says to: Do you like the coffee things shan? aploum says to: I don't know what to do anymore. My husband works nights so I am basically a single parent who works full time and then comes home to take care of the baby. I have no free time to myself, except for when she falls asleep. This has been quite a struggle lately so I am exhausted and have no time to unwind before I go to bed. mommy of 3 says to: what mommy of 3 says to: coffee things babysoup says to: Hi Sam ***:Welcome to Jo Frost Chat , Mrs.Reb! soliloquise says to: :) myusername says to: Shan do you have myspace yet? mommy of 3 says to: ohhhhh isee, never mind, lol mommy of 3 says to: not yet babysoup says to: hehe Southern Girl says to: hey christy babysoup says to: hi casey aploum says to: Sorry for typing such a long message... I just don't know how to get her to go to sleep again in her crib like she used to do without screaming for hours mommy of 3 says to: hi casey mommy of 3 says to: chchch changes mommy of 3 says to: lol lovemybabe says to: Is Jo here? stressed out says to: Hi Christy, Shan, Casey , JO poppy0680 says to: yep twinsmommy says to: Jo's typing. babysoup says to: don't do that shan, mommy of 3 says to: HI BECKY BABY Southern Girl says to: hey becky :) babysoup says to: Hey becky Jo Frost says to: Mady's Mom says to: My 20mo started climbing out of her crib and when she fell out doing this we decided it was time to move her to a toddler bed. She had always slept through the night since 2mo without any problems until now. Since moving her she has had a terrible time both going to sleep and staying asleep. The first night I thought she was just playing the get out of bed because I can game so I used the Stay In Bed technique of walking her back to bed this lasted for four hours before she finally stayed in bed ***:Welcome to Jo Frost Chat , msbelle08! twinsmommy says to: How do we "handle" it? soliloquise says to: wow poor jo is gonna need a valium after this chat lol poppy0680 says to: lol soliloquise says to: < trying to keep up > GIRLY says to: (lol) mommy of 3 says to: Dana, happy birthday myusername says to: lol xanac is better myusername says to: xanax* twinsmommy says to: Like I said, we've done the timeouts (in the corner), it just doesn't seem to phase her. babysoup says to: Happy bday Dana! msbelle08 says to: Hello Jo. ***:Welcome to Jo Frost Chat , christa! babysoup says to: hi christa lovemybabe says to: Jo, how long does it take for the controlled crying method to work? myusername says to: 12 more days til my birthday I am so excited... me and Jo are one month apart in bdays lol. christa says to: Hi Christy..boy I struggled with that one Jo Frost says to: babysoup says to: with what mommy of 3 says to: hi christy, ohhhh i mean christa, lol Jo Frost says to: nfldpenguin says to: Jo, I find that my son will listen to my husband more than he will to me. My husband using a strict tone with him, I try to do the same but I don't get the same response. I have being doing time outs but not with much luck Jo Frost says to: mommy of 3 says to: heheheheh im a brat Mady's Mom says to: My 20 mo old climbed and fell out of her crib so we moved her to a toddler bed. She once slept through the night since 2 months now she wakes throuhout the night. The first night I tried the stay in bed then I started using the separation technique I have been doing this for about three weeks I can't go out of the room or it starts all over christa says to: yes you are Mady's Mom says to: Also she wakes multiple times during the night christa says to: As the tune to Jeopardy plays in the background christa says to: lol JenJen_26 says to: What do you do when your potty training and things are going great and you almost have them out of the pull-ups and then she hits a brick wall and now wants nothing to do with it! This is happened twice! Mady's Mom says to: usually wakes about 12 and then it is ever hour after that until she gets up for the day at 6am we have a very strict bedtime routine also mommy of 3 says to: hello, hahaha, i thought all went dead Mady's Mom says to: she only takes one nap of about 2 hours during the daytimechrista says to: lol christa says to: that's going on with me too jen Jo Frost says to: aploum says to: How do I get my 21 mth daughter back into the routine of going to sleep in her own bed? She was always good until our vacation last month. myusername says to: tell her to restart IE then try.. It took me 2 times too. mommy of 3 says to: weny is pooping her pants then poppy0680 says to: Lilly is singing Dora the expolor behind me! I have never notice how annoying that song is intill now! nfldpenguin says to: It's very busy in here. Jo, I have another question. My husband is in the military and is about to leave for 7 months to go to Afghanistan. I'm very worried about my son while Daddy is away. He is very attached to him. We also have a four month old daughter. Any tips to keep him from having too much seperation anxiety ? msbelle08 says to: Hello Jo. I am a mother of 4 children with the ages ranging from 6 yrs., 5yrs., 20 monthes and 4 mos. I am overwelmed and somewhat depress. I would like to incorporate some kind of routine with the the older children. I know I will have some success with the 6 yr. old but the 5yr. old is a challenge. He is very strong-willed. *** (00:20):Welcome to Jo Frost Chat , carlacaprio! Jo Frost says to: JenJen_26 says to: really christa...what are doing? christa says to: keeping them in diapers until they agree to go mommy of 3 says to: JO, you told me in the last chat to use pull ups mommy of 3 says to: with lily myusername says to: Jen does she go to daycare or anything or is she at home with you all day? mommy of 3 says to: at bedtime JenJen_26 says to: sounds like a plan to me JO...thanks Jo Frost says to: christa says to: they will sit there but refuse to void on the toilet...so were at an impasse Jo Frost says to: Jo Frost says to: babysoup says to: Hi Jo JenJen_26 says to: I think I will do that! myusername says to: I've noticed daycare causes a lot of problemes in potty training because there are so many kids... not enough time to focus on one child.. babysoup says to: Sorry, i didn't get the question in JenJen_26 says to: tell me about it babysoup says to: What do we do about the naughty spot if we are driving? msbelle08 says to: I have a so so routine with the two older boys. Hubby is helping already. I really need to know how to handle my 5 yr old strong willed behavior. How do I go about making it his idea? twinsmommy says to: Jo, you said we need to handle the biting right away, I TOTALLY agree but my question I guess really is... How do I stop it? How do we get rid of the biting?? lovemybabe says to: Jo, what are your views about vaccinations? myusername says to: Pull over. lol christa says to: lol soliloquise says to: or get a harley :) JenJen_26 says to: Wendy still can't get in here....she wants to know if she has been purposely blocked from the chat?? Jo Frost says to: Jo Frost says to: babysoup says to: Thanks!! myusername says to: I want a cooky. myusername says to: cookie* msbelle08 says to: I even have implemented house rules so they know what to expect. Jo Frost says to: Jo Frost says to: christa says to: i try to talk her through on im...jen tell her to hold on Jo Frost says to: Mady's Mom says to: we have a very strict bedtime routine, my other problem is the nightwaking starts about 12 and every hour after that until she gets up at 6 because she won't stay in bed any longer than that myusername says to: Mayd just keep putting her back in the bed and don't give into her. It might take hours but it will be worth it in the end. Jo Frost says to: Jo Frost says to: nfldpenguin says to: i don't think my post worked. Jo, my husband is going to Afghanistan for 7 months. I''m worried about my son (2 and a half) because he is so attached to him. Any suggestions on how I can make it easier on him? Or has anyone else gone through this? twinsmommy says to: JO, do you have any suggestions for stopping the biting? lovemybabe says to: Jo, are you coming to Canada any time soon? soliloquise says to: i saw your post nfl i think everyone is just firing stuff at once so they get lost myusername says to: I was in shock Jo.. =). I should have but did not know if you would have known who I was even if I said I was who I am lol. mommy of 3 says to: i have not gone through that, but man do i feel you babysoup says to: Shan, what are you talking about dear? mommy of 3 says to: that would be hardnfl myusername says to: JO please do an episode on classroom management in a daycare... you can come to Panda (where I work) and help our 3 year old teacher lol. Jo Frost says to: mommy of 3 says to: hi wendy soliloquise says to: there was a sn prog on youtube where the partner was in the forces look under frshholygrail2's stuff it is there mommy of 3 says to: lol, ya made it christa says to: hey Wen babysoup says to: hi wendy JenJen_26 says to: yeah..wendy made it!!! Jo Frost says to: JenJen_26 says to: thanks Jon soliloquise says to: jo set up a webcam for the family wendi says to: okay...Jo you're gonna have to pay for my therapy after all this Southern Girl says to: hey wendy :) myusername says to: My daycare needs some supernanny-ing. And I have tried the accent... doesn't work lol. wendi says to: Hi everyone wendi says to: thanks jon Mady's Mom says to: what do i do about the night waking and the being able to leave the room? christa says to: hey but Wendy you got a Yippee...none of us did! myusername says to: lmao wendi. I might have needed therapy too if I didn;t get in. Jo Frost says to: JenJen_26 says to: LOL babysoup says to: Thanks for being fair!!hehe twinsmommy says to: Does anyone have suggestions for me on how I can handle my twins biting situation???? JenJen_26 says to: we are all special Christa!!! (lol) wendi says to: lol christa says to: yes indeed jen Jo Frost says to: mommy of 3 says to: no doubt about it jen christa says to: DO you remember me from New York Jo? JenJen_26 says to: Jo when are you going to come to Texas??? wendi says to: no jen nyc msbelle08 says to: how about ohio? lovemybabe says to: What about Canada Jo? ***:nfldpenguin quit the room ***:Welcome to Jo Frost Chat , nfldpenguin! JenJen_26 says to: I meant to my house for the show???LOL lovemybabe says to: Will you be here one day? Jo Frost says to: myusername says to: Wow... awesome!!! Well remember what my letter said... you're my mommy. LOL wendi says to: jo you need to come to south florida and help me with tyler wendi says to: who is in pink myusername says to: I did set up a beach cool off spot. nfldpenguin says to: my darn internet booted me off......is there any way I can go back to read what I missed? myusername says to: Kristen wendi says to: i want my writing in pink babysoup says to: Jo, You need a bright color next time. Jo Frost says to: Jo Frost says to: msbelle08 says to: Jo- can you feel the love! lovemybabe says to: It does air here and I never miss an episode! We love you! JenJen_26 says to: Jo, Paige said Hello again!! She just adores you!!! wendi says to: what text box are you kidding me do you know how hard it was to get in this thing Jo Frost says to: Mady's Mom says to: i really need some help with this bedtime thing i am about to pull my hair out JenJen_26 says to: lol shan christa says to: Fine, Thank you and yourself? Jo Frost says to: Jo Frost says to: babysoup says to: no one is ever hopeless, wendy JenJen_26 says to: I am making the best of it.. twinsmommy says to: I'm sorry to keep asking the same question but I don't know what to do about it. My husband talks of biting back - NO WAY - I say. So I need something to tell him - HELP!! Jo Frost says to: ***:Welcome to Jo Frost Chat , nfldpenguin! mommy of 3 says to: no dont bite back JenJen_26 says to: i have to watch out with what i am saying because he will read some of my post when i am not around christa says to: All Work!! myusername says to: Well actually.. mom's accent does work for the schoolaged kids. They stop and stare at me and are amused. I also yell at them in German.... even though I don;t know German I make it up. lol Jo Frost says to: ***:lovemybabe quit the room ***:Welcome to Jo Frost Chat , lovemybabe! twinsmommy says to : I know not to bite back but the problem is, we don't know WHAT to do. Jo Frost says to : Anyone on here from the UK? babysoup says to : I sense some desperation there. myusername says to : Punish her when she bites. How old is she again? twinsmommy says to : We are beside ourselves. soliloquise says to: yes wales here jo nfldpenguin says to: no I'm from Canada christa says to: time out soliloquise says to: wanna welshcake? christa says to: do you use time outs? twinsmommy says to: She's 20 months & yes there is DESPERATION!!! Mady's Mom says to: JO- how do I finish the separtation technique if everytime i get outside the door she screams and gets out of bed as long as I am at the door (inside) she will go to sleep.... what about the nightwaking??? plz help I have and have read the book but doesn't help once I am at this point twinsmommy says to: Time outs don't seem to do much. twinsmommy says to: She's doing this while she supposed to be going to sleep. Jo Frost says to: christa says to: well you have to be consistent soliloquise says to: consider it done me lovely :) ***:lovemybabe quit the room ***:Welcome to Jo Frost Chat , lovemybabe! soliloquise says to: take her back to bed repeatedly no matter how many times, the technique is on the forum i believe myusername says to: Mommy Jo, I hope you get to sleep in tomorrow....... It's very late for you. christa says to: I would say if she awake enough to bite she's awake enough to do her punishment for 2 minutes twinsmommy says to: We are. We continue to do the time outs, they just don't seem to do anything. nfldpenguin says to: just curious, how long is the chat for tonight? Jo Frost says to: Jo Frost says to: wendi says to: Jo please give me advice concerning Ty,,,I can take it. He is my only son Do you see why I have to help him a little? nfldpenguin says to: an hour is great, thanks lovemybabe says to: The controlled crying tech is for babie in a crib right? myusername says to: twinsmomy since she is only one it will be hard as she probably does not understand many words. Show her with your facial expressions and when she bites say NO firmly and remove her form her sister. Mady's Mom says to: it is on the site but it says move further and further to the door until you are outside but i can't get outside and i can't find anything about nightwaking nfldpenguin says to: I appreciate it, as I'm sure everyone else does too. myusername says to: Thats what we do with your biting one year olds. Jo Frost says to: christa says to: isn't that what the dog whisperer is for? christa says to: lol soliloquise says to: i want jo lol wendi says to: When to help and when to step back. He is lazy and works sometimes. JenJen_26 says to: lol wendi says to: wow it is quiet ***:lovemybabe quit the room Jo Frost says to: soliloquise says to: i think ( and correct me if i am wrong ) the technique is to not talk after the firs time and just consistently return to bed christa says to: Jo's typing mommy of 3 says to: yes it is quiet wendy babysoup says to: I'm laughing nfldpenguin says to: Jo, I have a four month old baby, what is your opinion on making routines for an infant? I am breastfeeding her but she is still feeding on demand. Not really a schedule as such, should I try to get her on one? wendi says to: me too Jo Frost says to: myusername says to: The only problem I have with kids is I can;t help but laugh when they say bad things. mommy of 3 says to: i have a headache, so not much happening in my brain, lol soliloquise says to: < hands out valium and welshcakes > babysoup says to: I'm sorry shan JenJen_26 says to: i could say alot...i love to talk, but just reading now wendi says to: no...he is living here and there and expects me to bail him out... twinsmommy says to: I'm severly concerned here!! Do I go into the bedroom each time they get out of bed for fear they are going to start biting eachother? Or do I wait until it happens b/c it will. myusername says to: solil got xanax instead? twinsmommy says to: She bites her 5 - 6 times b/4 they actually fall asleep. *** (00:45):Welcome to Jo Frost Chat , Tiffani! wendi says to: Hey tiff soliloquise says to: < magics some for myusername > JenJen_26 says to: hey tiff babysoup says to: hi tiff twinsmommy says to: Like I said she's got tons of bruises. Tiffani says to: Hi everyone! Jo Frost says to: Jo Frost says to: mommy of 3 says to: hi tiff lovemybabe says to: Does the controlled crying tech work for babies in a crib? msbelle08 says to: Jo- may i ask how do you handle a strong willed child when you implement a new routine? I apologize if i have asked this before. wendi says to: Thanks Jo...I'm trying Jo Frost says to: soliloquise says to: ok i am gonna shut up so jo can see the wood for the trees... awesome to " meet you " jo and there is always a welshcake in the valleys for ya here in wales x :) JenJen_26 says to: you can do it wendy myusername says to: chores*. something. jeez. JenJen_26 says to: just believe in yourself and ty wendi says to: ouch...okay Jo Frost says to: soliloquise says to: muah nannyof5 says to: Wendy if you keep it up before you know it he will be 32 and still doing the same thing. I know from experience Jo Frost says to: Jo Frost says to: wendi says to: i know you're right...and Jo I will continue to work on this...thanks for the support babysoup says to: When it stops moving does that mean no one is typing? Southern Girl says to: i'm sure shan will sing to you! christa says to: Mine is Aug 3rd...YAY! myusername says to: July 27th. One month after mommy Jo's lol mommy of 3 says to: yes i will sing Tiffani says to: Jo, how do I handle twin 18month olds in the naughty spot? One goes, the other tries to sit in his lap Mady's Mom says to: plz it is almost time for bedtime and i would like to know how to advance i haven't slept in 3-4 wks now and I am about ready just to move her back to the crib twinsmommy says to: Tiff, we have that happen at our house sometimes... lol twin girls - 20 mi. twinsmommy says to: 20 mo. *** (00:48):poppy0680 quit the room Tiffani says to: It's all screaming for a long time... Jo Frost says to: christa says to: She's not opposed to duct tape either! wendi says to: lol christa Tiffani says to: If I do that the offender follows and I can't seperate them myusername says to: At my daycare there is a chalkboard with Kristen's Birthday Countdown lol. christa says to: lol twinsmommy says to: Or I'll just play with just the "non" offender until time's up. babysoup says to: It only takes a few days, we just have to work hard on those days Tiffani says to: what's wrong with duct tape? wendi says to: lol twinsmommy says to: That's the tough part about timeouts - staying put. soliloquise says to: lol babysoup says to: velcro JenJen_26 says to: lol christa..there was a man who was arrested for duct taping his kids a tree for time- out... twinsmommy says to: Duct Tape! That's a good one. christa says to: OMG!!! babysoup says to: Really? twinsmommy says to: to a tree?? OMG wendi says to: i want jo to answer for tiff she has wanted this answer for some time mommy of 3 says to: get out myusername says to: I tell my daycare kids theres a lion in the kitchen. it works. try the lion technique lol. soliloquise says to: lmao Tiffani says to: a lion? I don't get it christa says to: that's mean Kristen Jo Frost says to: JenJen_26 says to: yeah...it was not too far from where i live.. *** (00:50):myusername quit the room *** (00:50):Welcome to Jo Frost Chat , myusername! myusername says to: lmao theyre so cute though they egt all big eyed and go woooowww like the lion king? wendi says to: so maybe ignor ones behavior and deal with one at a time Jo Frost says to: Tiffani says to: But if only one is in the naughty spot, can I put him in his crib to seperate them? My house is small msbelle08 says to: jo thank you soo much. I truly appreciate any advice you give. soliloquise says to: madysmum stay strong you can do it, stay consistant and chat on the forum for support these wenches rock :) Jo Frost says to: wendi says to: good point twinsmommy says to: We have a small house too. It's hard but can be done. Mady's Mom says to: thx sol... but how do i continue the technique if it won't go any further? and what do i do about the nightwaking? Tiffani says to: brb twinsmommy says to: So, no suggestions on how to handle the biting, JO? myusername says to: Can we keep this chatroom up all the time for the users too? And there cna be scheduled times for when Jo comes? soliloquise says to: i only go by what i seen jo do so dont know just dont give up nfldpenguin says to: I think the chat room would be a great idea lovemybabe says to: Thanks for all your advice Jo! soliloquise says to: you will get there wendi says to: Jo at what age should you prohibit a child from sucking his thumb and what method would you use Mady's Mom says to: so can i get some advice from jo? twinsmommy says to: I love chat rooms. they can be tons of fun. myusername says to: Yeah they are. Jo Frost says to: wendi says to: I told her that Jo...but noooooo she wouldn't listen to me wendi says to: lol twinsmommy says to: oh... so time outs for biting at 20 months is a no nol. myusername says to: lol wendi Mady's Mom says to: i have checked both and all nothing about it not workingonce getting to the door Mady's Mom says to: and isn't clear on the nightwaking Jo Frost says to: JenJen_26 says to: paige lives in time out wendi says to: awesome... myusername says to: lmao JenJen_26 says to: i know that sounds bad but it's true twinsmommy says to: So, we just let her keep biting & bruising her sister? That doesn't seem right to me. babysoup says to: Cara is getting better, we haven't been there all week christa says to: I wa s thinking because they were so close to two it was ok...but I guess 4 months can make a world of difference in their comprehension! Mady's Mom says to: should i be trying some other technique?? JenJen_26 says to: well that is good christy soliloquise says to: with nightwaking dont you repeat the same thing ie saying its bedtime at first and leaving then doing same silently so as not to reinforce it? myusername says to: Redirect her away form ehr sister when it happens.. lower your tone and show her with facial expression you mean business and firmly tell her no, remove her form the other child. Its the best you can do. wendi says to: Jo it's Wendy...I had to get creative and create a new account to get on here...Just so you know...:) Jo Frost says to: twinsmommy says to: huh... so what do I do? wendi says to: :) Tiffani says to: Jo, I don't get it, do they not understand at that age? If Grant gets caught pulling hair, he goes to the naughty spot and sits down. msbelle08 says to: I have another issue Jo. I struggle to spend time with each of my children. any suggestions? JenJen_26 says to: lol wendy christa says to: I would also let her know that that gives boo boo's and we don't want to hurt our sister soliloquise says to: i thikn jo can only answer one person at a time and this room is busy. wendi says to: the questions are getting tougher jo...feel the heat Mady's Mom says to: she will stay in bed at nigthwaking i don't have to stay in room but i have to go into room to lead her back to bed but it happens all nigth long i have been sleeping on the couch to be closer therefore no sleep for me wendi says to: lol twinsmommy says to: I've been doing that, the boo boo thing. She seems to understand that boo boo's are not good but then she' goes & bites her.... nfldpenguin says to: yes this room has been very busy. i'm sure Jo is doing her best to answer as many questions as possible. babysoup says to:I think bedtime is a popular topic! christa says to:Oh I thank God I don't have that problem with my twins Tiffani says to: Ben pulls hair and says ouchie at the same time... Jo Frost says to: twinsmommy says to: We should do a chat JUST on Bedtime. Tiffani says to: Jo, one minute soliloquise says to: no shes not intentionally i am sure. chillllllll folks :P wendi says to: no...she is trying to get to everyone wendi says to: patience wendi says to: :) soliloquise says to: shes only one woman christa says to: It is a Virtue JenJen_26 says to: mady's mom..try postive reinforcement wendi says to: super woman myusername says to: Everyone.. give me girl name suggestions. christa says to: That's what the rest of us are here for too! twinsmommy says to: Lucille GIRLY says to: she's the supernanny!! Mady's Mom says to: tried the stay in bed all nigth get a surprise nothing is working wendi says to: Lauren myusername says to: Jo what is your favorite girl name? nfldpenguin says to: myusername, I just named my daughter Keely JenJen_26 says to: that is not the positive reinforcement i am talking about Jo Frost says to: msbelle08 says to: I feel very guilty that i don't spend that much time with them. soliloquise says to: can anyone explain the nightwaking technique to madysmom i only have cats and dogs :) myusername says to: Which is better out of Delaney, Haven, Giavonna, Larkin twinsmommy says to: So What's the discipline b/4 2 years old. babysoup says to: lol wendi says to: lol Jo Frost says to: twinsmommy says to: It's pretty. soliloquise says to: haven is groovy JenJen_26 says to: Harley christa says to: Tiff hear the words that are coming off of her fingers wendi says to: lol myusername says to: Yeah if Jo ever has a little girl she is going to name her Kristen... LOL wendi says to: wake up Kristen JenJen_26 says to: Kristen you just crack me up!! JenJen_26 says to: love ya girl wendi says to: Kristen you scare me wendi says to: lol christa says to: LOl myusername says to: lol yeah Jen sees my true doofyness she is my friend on myspace lol mommy of 3 says to: lol Mady's Mom says to: thanx for the try sol.. i have to get the tike into bed now so i haveta go soliloquise says to: here madysmum lots of links here JenJen_26 says to: that is right...lol Tiffani says to: Thank you, Jo! You are fabulous! JenJen_26 says to: i have facebook now too wendi says to: counseling? soliloquise says to: i am starting to go off the idea of having kids lmao JenJen_26 says to: yes wendi i probably need some of that Jo Frost says to: wendi says to: good stuff jo Mady's Mom says to: link didn't work twinsmommy says to: That is intentional. myusername says to: Wendy you scare me too =) Mady's Mom says to: did you just google it? soliloquise says to: ok do a search for jo frost night waking soliloquise says to: yup soliloquise says to: lots of stuff there soliloquise says to: dont give up wendi says to: Yeah I scare me too...too...:) Jo Frost says to: myusername says to: lol Jo Frost says to: wendi says to: really' myusername says to: WHats a night owl Jen? soliloquise says to: you have talked about it though right? msbelle08 says to: twinsmommy- or throwing! my 20 month old throws food etc Mady's Mom says to: how do you handle the night waking combined with the other sleep problem? Jo Frost says to: wendi says to: lol christa says to: Jo do you have a scheduled New York trip lined up again? Some of us would really love to make it out as a group to see you. JenJen_26 says to: LOL JO...i am totally a night person!! Jo Frost says to: Jo Frost says to: babysoup says to: That is true! twinsmommy says to: Thanks JO. I'll have to remember that tomorrow when the whole thing starts over again!!! JenJen_26 says to: that doesn't matter with me..i stay up all night a lot! *** (01:04):Welcome to Jo Frost Chat , mominwisconsin! wendi says to: Jo did you see that Christa, Kyle and the kids and I got to meet. They are a lovely family wendi says to: Christy wendi says to: sorry christa says to: lol wendi says to: lol babysoup says to: you are lovely too! mommy of 3 says to: lol mominwisconsin says to: hello wendi says to: i know wendi says to: lol JenJen_26 says to: I will met Wendy in Aug. Jo Frost says to: JenJen_26 says to: YAY!!! soliloquise says to: hi there mominwisconsin babysoup says to: Shan!! mommy of 3 says to: what wendi says to: me too mominwisconsin says to: How's everyone tonight? Jo Frost says to: wendi says to: we will wait patiently jo myusername says to: OMG YESSSSSSSSSSSS.... Billy Madison is on. twinsmommy says to: That sounds fun! I wanna go too!!!!:D soliloquise says to: i am trying to get pregnant :) lol babysoup says to: School starts next week here msbelle08 says to: Jo how long have you've been in the nanny business? twinsmommy says to: We christa says to: Taking the kids to Sesame Place for their 3rd bday JenJen_26 says to: Jo, I am making file folder games and swimming soliloquise says to: and i shall be trying often haha wendi says to: working...working....working GIRLY says to: going to mexico twinsmommy says to: We're taking the girls to TX to visit family. Jo Frost says to: myusername says to: Summer Camp field trips. lol. wendi says to: Jo Jo...did you miss my question twinsmommy says to: First time on a plane for the girls - we're kinda scared. JenJen_26 says to: I have started an application Mady's Mom says to: plz come help me jo! mominwisconsin says to: Jo, I have been suggested to try your show but my husband isn't too fond of the idea...should I just ask a few ?'s...your books are awesome by the way! christa says to: You have Jen? wendi says to: apply for the show JenJen_26 says to: shhh.don't tell any one christa says to: Awesome!! He gave in, huh? myusername says to: My daycare is going to apply.. lol. JenJen_26 says to: no..he doesn't know babysoup says to: The crew is nice too JenJen_26 says to: lol christa says to: lol christa says to: oh boy mommy of 3 says to: christy dear, why for you say my name nfldpenguin says to: Jo, do you think I should have a schedule for my four month old? She is breastfed. christa says to: Nanny Jo you'll have your hands full! babysoup says to: I'll call you JenJen_26 says to: where at my house?? mommy of 3 says to: ohh yes girl *** (01:07):lovemybabe quit the room Jo Frost says to: mommy of 3 says to: i am painting my toes while looking at what everyone is saying nfldpenguin says to: Jo, I know you are extremely busy, do you ever get time to read the posts in the forum? myusername says to: WHat color shan? mommy of 3 says to: call anytime of day i am not busy mominwisconsin says to: Jo or anyone...I have a 3 1/2 month and a 3 1/2 year old and the situation is if you haven't read is.. wendi says to: awwww JenJen_26 says to: christa..yeah..i have to agree babysoup says to: He would have to be willing to make it work christa says to: Just get him on board *** (01:08):Welcome to Jo Frost Chat , lovemybabe! Jo Frost says to: christa says to: board nfldpenguin says to: ok i will read it. thanks wendi says to: You talking to me JO soliloquise says to: < makes a mental note to behave on the forums from now on > myusername says to: lol! christa says to: we never do!!! wendi says to: did i miss something wendi says to: you talking to me christa soliloquise says to: :D Southern Girl says to: sam....lol myusername says to: Yeah to the girl who likes to talk about deoderant in odd places. *glares* christa says to: Did evryone's font just automatically change? wendi says to: no nfldpenguin says to: Wendi, I think she was answering me JenJen_26 says to: mine didn't soliloquise says to: oh god i am scared of that deoderant thread lol twinsmommy says to: font change?? no. wendi says to: oh okay JenJen_26 says to: LOL christa says to: hmmm...mine did stressed out says to: lol mominwisconsin says to:I live in an apartment and the 2 boys share a room..how can I make this work. We only have a 2 BDRM..Also I have been very emotional lately because my hubby works/goes to school and for now I'm home all day with the boys.. myusername says to: lmao me too babysoup says to: She was trying to make sure everyone smelled well wendi says to: the read goes so fast myusername says to: thats true wendi says to: soap and watere mommy of 3 says to: what iswt is wrong with that, i dont like a smelly ass, lol wendi says to: watere soliloquise says to: haha wendi says to: water babysoup says to: lol myusername says to: LMAO JenJen_26 says to: it just started raining here wendi says to: rained here too wendi says to: we need it stressed out says to: Shan your to funny, you brighten my day JenJen_26 says to: that is unusual for TX in July myusername says to: WHere are you from Wendy? Jo Frost says to: twinsmommy says to: Bye Jo! Good night! Southern Girl says to: thanks jo...you sleep well nfldpenguin says to: THanks for everything Jo. Will be watching all your shows. Take care JenJen_26 says to: Thank you Jo! I hope you have a great night lovemybabe says to: Thanks Jo! GIRLY says to: bye Jo soliloquise says to: ahhh jo the wild woman of nannying take care chica !!! Mrs.Reb says to: thanks jo twinsmommy says to: God Bless!!! babysoup says to: See ya Jo, thanks! myusername says to: Bye mommy Jo..... night night get osme sleep. nfldpenguin says to: Sweet dreams stressed out says to: by Jo wendi says to: very nice...by Jo and thank you. ***:Mady's Mom quit the room christa says to: Thamks Jo...Goodnight christa says to: Thanks GIRLY says to: thanks Jo soliloquise says to: this chat must be draining as hell lol JC says to: thanks. mominwisconsin says to: Do you think my older boy who is misbehaving a little more lately, is just realizing the addition to the family? Jo Frost says to: Tiffani says to: goodnight, Jo! ***:lovemybabe quit the room babysoup says to: bye msbelle08 says to: thanks jo. GIRLY says to: nght Jo myusername says to: Yuv yoo! Mrs.Reb says to: night wendi says to: Rest up...and best wishes mommy of 3 says to: night night xo JenJen_26 says to: good luck with all that and take care my dear msbelle08 says to: goodnight jo. GIRLY says to: night ya ***:babysoup quit the room wendi says to: Thanks Jon...and Ashley if you're on ***:wendi quit the room soliloquise says to: < sits shan in the naughty chair > Jo Frost says to: ***:Jo Frost quit the room GIRLY says to: bye christa says to: Aww, doesn't it make ya'll a little sad when she goes |
